American Born Chinese – 美國土生華人

October 28, 2007

Distinguishing Both Chinese and American Rhetoric

Filed under: Asia America, Assimilation, Personal Experiences — americanbornchinese @ 9:04 am

Dear Reader,

I sincerely apologize for the lack of updates as it has been many months since I last posted. I am currently in the midst of school projects, assignments, and midterms. I will definitely try to post more often, but my frequency of posts also depends upon how inspired I am to write regarding a selected topic or about a particular circumstance or series of events happening that pertain primarily to the Chinese/Asian American experience, history, culture, and community. If you are a regular visitor, I thank you for your interest in coming to my blog. Stay tuned for more updates in the near future, and I highly encourage discussion in comments if you would like to share any relevant personal experiences, opinions, or whatnot.

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Intercultural Communication – Chinese and Western Styles 

I recently read an article online that depicted the differences between Chinese and American communicative styles as an indication of the varying degrees of clarity particularly within the context of written expression. I realized subsequently how applicable this particular article was to my own personal experiences in writing as well. Having a lifestyle defined by a duo identity – Chinese and American – I have often sought for a harmonious balance and integration of both cultures simultaneously into my life, but in the following situation, the issue of discrepancy between both has even risen forth within the classroom context.

For the background information, I am currently an Industrial Design major, and the class I am taking this semester is defined by a curriculum formatted to build and enhance our skills in communication and presentations. We’ve had a number of projects lately that pertained specifically to our career-oriented field, including resumes, cover letters, business proposals, and of the like – a heavy amount of writing skills that we need to utilize for this course. Thus, our work is ultimately scrutinized for its components of structure, formatting, and writing.

One of our major assignments had been to write up a resume and an accompanying cover letter in response to a job posting we found online, tailoring the content so that it would directly fulfill the requirements of the posting with our qualifications. Needless to say, we did not apply in actuality; this assignment was merely to train us so that we would know how to do so effectively in the future.

As you will soon read in the following conversation with my professor, my adherence to a particular cultural standard over another has somehow impeded my ability to write an effective cover letter, though it had initially been oblivious to me. Or, at least, that’s what my professor interpreted it to be… But I am also caught pondering about whether my writing style had been truly reflective of an instilled cultural characteristic or whether it had actually been my own personal style of creative writing evolved over many years of habitual exposure and practice. Maybe a little bit of both.

Conversation with my Professor regarding my Cover Letter

(I apparently did not quote this word-for-word as it was, but this is representative of our discussion and all the details and main points I remember clearly from it.)

Following the end of class, I come up to my professor, wanting to seek help from her on how I could revise and improve upon my cover letter. She takes my sheet of paper, and after a few minutes of reading, she suddenly speaks up:

Professor: “I want to ask you something. What’s your cultural background?”

Me: “My cultural background? What do you want to know?”

 

Professor: “Just tell me what background or culture you identify most with.”

Me: “Umm…I’m Chinese, if that’s what you’re asking….” 

Up to this point, I had been thinking, “What does my cultural background or ethnicity have anything to do with a cover letter that I’ve just written for a class assignment in order to apply for a potential design job?”

Professor: “Ahh, that might explain your style of writing…After reading your cover letter, I cannot help but notice that you’ve used a lot of particular words and phrases that pertain to a type of communication style I’ve noticed among Chinese. You tend to use a lot of abstract words that deviate from the direct points you ought to make in your letter. Hmm, *peers more closely at the letter* “Blossom” into success? That’s interesting.” *Appears amused*

Me: “Um, well…I normally write this way, and I’ve been told that I often ramble on in my writings without much of a direction sometimes. I like to be abstract and expressive when it comes to writing.” 

Professor: “Okay. However, this isn’t a creative writing class; this is a business-related type of letter that targets an audience of businessmen who are looking for direct, honest statements of how your qualifications can fit their needs and how you can personally contribute to their services. Additionally, you have to include specific examples of how you can particularly tailor your skills to their expectations and eventually prove that you will be an asset to their company. Explaining that you have the capabilities and the competence is what most other applicants write in their letters, but you must demonstrate what you can truly provide them.”  

Me: “Oh I see. So you’re saying I ought to be more direct and just communicate my point across simply by targeting the company’s goals rather than my own?” 

Professor: “Yes, my point exactly. As I read through your letter, I noticed that you included phrases such as “build up my character” and “my strong desire to learn and grow within the company.” In truth, the company is looking to see how you can build them up and how you can develop a strong desire to grow the company. While you use words that are important communication tools that explain who you are and what you expect, you need to be more explicit and direct in your writing and make them realize all that you have to offer. I’ve had my experiences working with different people of varying cultural backgrounds, and what I notice is that Chinese have a tendency to be implicit in their writings, meaning that they are often winding in different directions but not exactly pinpointing their main intent.” 

Me: *Brief hesitation* “Oh, I see; I understand.” 

Professor: “One of the important things to consider is your audience. You are presumably writing to an American company, and the way you write is an important aspect of how the company will view you on first impression based upon your cover letter and resume. So you must also place that into consideration. On the other hand, if you were writing to apply for a position at a Chinese company, well, then you may need to modify your letter in order for it to fit the cultural expectations of your employer.”

 

It is said that the American communicative pattern could be defined by just a simple arrow pointing in a straight line toward its designated direction, while the Chinese pattern could be characterized by an arrow spiraling and curving every whichway. In other words, the American style is direct, frank, and straightforward, while the Chinese style is implicit and indirect, often weaving its way back and forth before arriving to a final halt at its targeted location.

Does the issue of plainness and clarity truly sprout forth from the product of Western culture, and does Chinese communication really suggest a sense of implicitness and ambiguity on the contrary? Even as my professor had been speaking, I felt compelled to immediately shirk in embarrassment due to the sudden label that segregated me under that “umbrella” of thought and perception toward the Chinese in general. I wanted to launch an impulsive counterattack that, as a matter-of-factly, I had been born and raised on American soil and that I’ve lived my entire life here – having been accustomed and assimilated into its mainstream culture, values, and practices – so how is it possible that one can isolate me and place me into a separate category from the average American based upon my rhetoric style?

Throughout my life, I’ve attended American English school, and I’ve received the same type of education in reading and writing as any of my non-Asian counterparts have in the U.S. Moreover, not once have my parents sent me to a Chinese-learning institution when I was young. Aside from that, the only cultural influences I have been exposed to are namely from my family and the various Chinese ethnic enclaves within the Bay Area, primarily in Chinatown and in other Chinese-populated districts. So it’s difficult for me to fathom how my writing skills, in that case, could have been so culturally influenced by the characteristics of my ethnic heritage roots. Shouldn’t I be more naturally inclined toward an American communicative style instead?

Perhaps, as I’ve mentioned, my writing behavior can also be attributed to my own personal preferences of creative writing. And perhaps, taking into account that this had been my first time writing up a formal cover letter, I probably hadn’t really been able to differentiate the writing techniques and objectives of a business letter as juxtaposed with those of a creative piece of literary work.

To this day, I strive to understand and distinguish the rhetoric between Chinese and American communicative styles in the verbal and written contexts. And overall, as an American-born Chinese, I yearn to be more open-minded to both sides of the picture, and one day, I just might be able to somehow bridge the cultural gaps that divide these two cultures from one another.

Source: http://web.mit.edu/kdevries/www/clarity2a.pdf (PDF file) 

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June 5, 2007

From the ABC Perspective: Torn Between Two Worlds

Filed under: Assimilation, Personal Experiences — americanbornchinese @ 3:33 am

I’m sure that many ABCs have gone through a similar situation as mine while growing up in the United States – at least, the general population of average Chinese Americans. The truth is, if you have been born and raised overseas outside of your mother country, there is an inevitability in terms of being accustomed to your host country’s way of life and culture and becoming removed from your own. It’s like this no matter what ethnicity you are.

This is a story told from my own personal account:

Both my parents immigrated from Hong Kong to the U.S. with my grandparents in the late 1960’s, and ever since stepping foot into a new environment where spoken English was predominantly prevalent throughout, they went through high school and college struggling to build proficiency in their second language and to peacefully adjust to their new atmosphere. Likewise, English was also my second language – my first and foremost spoken language was Chinese (Cantonese). However, my situation is different from theirs in that I was constantly surrounded from side to side by fluent English speakers as I was growing up, and I attended American English school where grammar and phonetics were greatly emphasized upon, especially at the elementary grade level.

When I was just a toddler, I started spewing forth words and phrases in Cantonese, the original Guangzhou and official Hong Kong dialect – my parents’ native tongue in which they were apparently fluent. As I started to age, my Chinese vocabulary began to expand at a gradual process until I was able to carry out decent conversations in Cantonese with my parents, their Chinese friends (my “Aunties” and “Uncles”), and my other relatives. Simultaneously, as I entered preschool and kindergarten, I picked up simple English words and phrases here and there from interactions with outsiders in bilingual settings. And in terms of cultural values, my parents raised me the “Confucian” way in accordance with the Chinese principles of filial piety and loyalty to promote social harmony within the family, and that ultimately shaped the way I viewed elders – with the utmost reverence and obedience.

However, albeit my simple grasp of basic English from my former schooling prior to first grade, English in elementary school then became more of a struggle for me as heavier emphasis was being placed on learning proper phonetics as well as how to read and write in the language. My English, at that point, had been inadequate. I recall my parents telling me later on as I was older that when I was in first grade, my teacher would communicate to me in English and I would just stare blankly at her without so much as a simple response on my part. Was I dumb? But she knew that I was intelligent because of the way I utilized drawing as my main tool for visual communication for art was one of my talents. Another possibility could have been that I was hearing impaired and she suggested to my parents that I should get tested for this. And apparently, that was not the case. I had almost been retained from entering second grade along with my same-age peers due to my poor verbal English skills, but fortunately, after a meeting with the vice principal and my parents, my first grade teacher finally allowed me to advance to second grade due to the potential she detected from me to improve.

Her decision to permit me to advance turned out to be a good one. In second grade, my father then began to communicate to me entirely in English while my mother continued to talk to me in Chinese so I could at least retain the language. However, I started responding to them both in English seventy-five percent of the time (with the constant use of “Chinglish”), and in later years to come, the percentage increased to ninety (and even later, ninety-five). I started interacting with my classmates and peers in English, and none of my close friends in school had a Chinese background except for myself. My parents, with the primary intention of having me focus on my regular schooling, did not enroll me in Chinese school when I was young. They initially planned to, but after the incident in first grade, they decided I should concentrate on English to avoid putting extra strain and burden on me to learn two languages simultaneously. Instead, they enrolled me in a tutoring program to help me improve my English reading and writing skills in second and third grade. My mother also purchased some self-help books complete with audio tapes to help me with my English phonetics, and everyday, I listened to the tapes for half and hour and followed along with the books. There were days she put aside some of her own time to sit with me and read children’s books. To this day, I thank my parents for their persistent devotion to help me improve my English skills, and I’ve undoubtedly advanced with time progression, continual exposure, and consistent practice.

Gradually, my English became fluent and I had assimilated entirely into the American culture. In third grade, I was among one of the top students with the highest scores in the subject of Phonics, and in middle school and junior high, I received high grades in my English classes which taught grammar, vocabulary, and spelling. My teachers at the high school and university levels complimented me on my superior writing skills, and when I was in high school, I was able to enroll in advanced placement (AP) English courses in literature and language composition. Also, ever since junior high up to this point in time, I discovered my talent and love for creative writing, and the written English language has become one of my most competent strengths up to this present day.

As a sacrifice, however, I had nearly lost my Chinese in both aspects of language and culture by the time middle school had rolled around the corner. I still continued to celebrate Chinese rituals and holidays such as Chinese New Year with my family, but CNY didn’t mean much to me except for saying Chinese greetings, eating and spending time with family, and receiving red envelopes with money. When I was young, I had many questions in my mind: “What’s the Lunar calendar? How’s that different from the regular time period? What do all those greetings even mean?” I was accustomed to Chinese traditions at home, but I never understood them or knew why we celebrated certain rituals.

Furthermore, my Chinese speaking skills slowly diminished and it was to the point that I communicated to my parents solely in English with various Cantonese words/phrases thrown about here and there. With an obvious English accent and a few grammatical errors, I would speak to my grandparents and relatives in simple Cantonese (sometimes mixed with English), and on several occasions, I would overhear my grandmother blaming my mother in Chinese for not talking to me enough in our native language when I was young. And of course, I certainly didn’t know how to read or write Chinese.

Had I lost my Chinese culture? Had I lost my ability to speak in my native tongue? Did I forget that I was even Chinese to begin with? At the start of university, circumstances slowly took a turn…

When I entered college, it was mandatory to take a foreign language as one of my general education (GE) requirements. I thought about continuing Spanish since I had already taken three years of it in high school as a requirement to graduate. On the other hand, I noticed that Chinese was also offered and decided that I might as well take it to learn Mandarin, the standard dialect of China. Since, after all, I am Chinese. My mother would always sit in front of the TV and watch Mandarin soap operas and I wouldn’t understand a word they were saying except for “Ni hao ma?” (How are you?). It would be nice to understand some of what they were actually saying. Okay, so what would I have to lose? I went ahead and enrolled in the beginner course hoping to pick up a little bit of both the written and spoken language. In the duration of the semester, I picked up some basics of Mandarin Chinese and learned to read and write a bit of the written language as well.

And while I was there, I met a new friend – not just any friend, but one who eventually helped change my perspective on my own cultural identity and what I really perceived myself as. Likewise, she was Chinese, but unlike me, she was not American-born, but rather, Guangzhou-born and having been raised in Hong Kong. And apparently, she knew perfectly well how to read and write Chinese, but she took this course as a way to review some basic Mandarin and to raise her GPA. And quite expectedly, she spoke fluent Cantonese while I spoke fluent English, but when we both spoke the latter, neither of us were quite proficient enough. And I, for lack of better words, “sucked” at Cantonese. However, talking to her raised my interests in learning more about my Chinese background and improving upon the native dialect.

It was then I realized – we do actually share a lot in common. We’re both Cantonese Chinese, our familial origins both rest in Canton and Hong Kong, and we both practice the same Chinese traditions and rituals. But one thing that sets apart overseas-born Chinese and Chinese immigrants in general is the place of birth and where one was raised. The place of birth then inevitably gives rise to many other evident differences as well such as language barrier, cultural differences, and interaction as well as behavior at times. Hoping to establish a firm ground between my American identity as well as my own cultural roots, I began to do more searching of my own cultural identity as an ABC. The following semester, I enrolled in an Asian American Studies course called “Chinese American Personality,” and I learned about the Chinese American experience here in the U.S. involving the struggles facing assimilation into mainstream society, the relationship of immigrant parents with their American-born children in relation to cultural values, personality attributes associated with the Chinese identity, and many more aspects of Chinese life here in an ethnically and culturally diverse America.

I look toward life now with a fresh new perspective. I took the Chinese course in college hoping to learn a new dialect and to read and write some Chinese, but having since completed both the language course and the Asian American Studies class, I’ve not only developed a further interest in the Chinese language itself, but I’ve also developed a newfound interest in studying about the overseas-born Chinese experience, particularly for Chinese Americans since I am one myself. Having lived my entire life in the U.S., I want to travel to the native homeland where my parents grew up and experience life there for myself through exposure to the Chinese culture – particularly Hong Kong culture.

And as far as language proficiency is concerned, I’ve taken the initiative to improve upon my Cantonese speaking skills through watching Hong Kong-based movies and communicating with family members mostly in the mother tongue. I’ve definitely shown some improvement over the past months. Though I’m also interested in pursuing Mandarin as well, I’ll concentrate on that as a second priority after first improving on my Cantonese. Additionally, over the past six months, I’ve taken up independent, self-initiated study during my leisure in which I’m learning to read and write Chinese on my own using a variety of books and online resources, continuing on from what I’ve already picked up from my previous Chinese language course.

I just hope that my blog will also inspire other ABCs and overseas Chinese as well. If that’s who you are, I encourage you to hold onto your own cultural roots. Even if you’re not Chinese – whether you’re European, Mexican, African, Middle-Eastern, or a different type of Asian – it applies to everyone all the same. It’s part of who you are, and you should never forget where your heritage lies.

May 11, 2007

About “American Born Chinese” blog

Filed under: Assimilation — americanbornchinese @ 9:35 pm

Welcome to my American Born Chinese (ABC) blog! I decided to start this journal because, just like many other ABCs, we have dealt with the constant issue of cultural assimilation in the United States. Many of us are second-generation Chinese U.S. citizens having had first-generational parents who immigrated here from mainland China, Hong Kong, or Taiwan after the U.S. Immigration Act of 1965 loosened its grip on enforced policies regarding immigration from East Asia. 

The term “American Born Chinese” is commonly coined with the acrynom “ABC” just as “BBC” is a term for British Born Chinese and “CBC” for Canadian Born Chinese. Often, overseas Chinese labeled with these terms are regarded as individuals who are removed from their own culture as not having adequate understanding of Chinese traditions/customs and values and also not being able to speak the native tongue (Mandarin, Cantonese, etc.) very proficiently, much less read and write in the language. For ABCs particularly, the Chinese population living on the coastal regions of the U.S. have a greater tendency to attain a stronger connection to the Chinese culture and influence due to the continual immigration of Chinese to these areas, thus, leading to the expanding populations of Chinese communities in states such as California and New York.

Assimilation into the mainstream culture is often the typical commonality prevalent among Asians or any other ethnic groups that have been born and raised in the U.S. for the majority (if not all) of their lives. Therefore, many have blended into the societal values and culture of the “host” country, and some have been viewed as seemingly having denied their heritage identity as a result. The derogatory terminology “banana,” and “Twinkie” are the common characteristics that reflect the “white-washed” tendencies of these ABCs – yellow on the outside, yet white on the inside.

The term “cultural assimilation,” as defined by Wikipedia, is “is an intense process of consistent integration whereby members of an ethno-cultural group, typically immigrants, or other minority groups, are “absorbed” into an established, generally larger community. This presumes a loss of many characteristics which make the newcomers different.” (Source)

Personally, I have been born into a family in which my parents both immigrated with their own families from Hong Kong in the 1960’s and attended high school and college in the U.S. I was born in San Francisco, California and have lived in this state for the entirety of my life without ever stepping foot in my native homeland. Growing up, I attended American-English school without having been sent to Chinese school when I was younger, so I didn’t start learning how to read/write Chinese until my Freshman year in college when I took a course in Mandarin Chinese. So what makes you so interested in Chinese culture? you might ask…

Well, to tell you the truth, it might be a number of factors. It may be the fact that I took a course called “Chinese American Personality” during the first college semester of my Sophomore year and that perhaps elevated my interests in discovering my heritage roots. It may also be the fact that I’ve befriended a number of Asian born friends in college who indirectly taught me the importance of realizing my own cultural background as Chinese, and that is my ethnic identity. Or it may even perhaps be the fact that I live in a urban enclave with a large Chinese community and that may have a lot of influence as well.

Through postings in this journal and the rambling of my thoughts, I hope to not only bridge the existing gaps between Eastern and Western cultures, but establish a consciousness of the importance of realizing one’s own cultural identity – whether you may be Asian, Caucasian, Middle-Eastern, African, Latin…or whatever! In this particular blog, I will touch up on a variety of categories and aspects within both U.S. and Chinese cultures – including entertainment, food, news, the Chinese language, Eastern/Western lifestyles, and much more!

This blog will ultimately reflect the journey of this ABC in the cultural exploration of her Asian American and Chinese identity. Stay tuned for future postings!

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